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Why You Need a Clean Sweep if You Want to Improve Your Success

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Every once in a while I get the urge to just dump everything…well almost everything… that I’m doing and clear the decks. Just sweep them clean. Create a blank slate on which to write our aspirations, goals and dreams. We get so tied up and bogged down in everything we have on our plates; projects, commitments, habits, that we have no room to breathe. No space to experiment. Not even the tiniest crack in our schedule to stop and think.

Do I truly care about the projects I’m involved in?

Why am I doing this again?

Do I really need to do that thing?

Here’s the harsh reality. If you haven’t made any progress on those goals you set earlier in the year, you need to question if they really matter.

Now take a deep breath and let them go. Make room for new goals, fresh ideas, creative projects.

What would you do if only you had the time?

It’s almost a new year, time for a fresh start.

Time for some house cleaning, both literally and figuratively.

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Slow Down! You May be Missing Something Important

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“Slow down and enjoy life. It’s not only the scenery you miss by going too fast – you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.” Eddie Cantor

Slow down! You may be missing something important…your life.

This time of year it’s more important than ever to slow down and enjoy your life. Unfortunately for most of us this is also the busiest time of year; shopping, wrapping, socializing and we still have to keep up with our work obligations and family responsibilities. It doesn’t leave much time for holiday cheer, let alone, time to take in the scenery.

Unless we make a conscious decision to do so. You can make excuses all day long. In the end the choice is yours. As a “busyholic in recovery” I can tell you that I get it. I understand the avalanche of tasks, the never-ending demands, and the bottomless inbox. I get it. I really do. But to what end? Where are you going and why?

I can tell you where I am going!

I am going to sit and enjoy one more Christmas concert and actually listen to the children singing and playing their hearts out instead of lamenting over the chores that are waiting for me at home and what I could have gotten done if I didn’t have to attend.

I am going to sit and play Othello and Battleship with my son in front of the fire instead of making one more trip to the mall for that “perfect” present.

I am going to cuddle and rock my smoochable grandbaby instead of trekking back up to my office late at night for one more work session.

I am going to drink coffee with my husband and watch the snowflakes fall instead of checking my email on a Sunday morning.

Where are you going? Can you slow down and enjoy your life more?

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Why Do We Resist What We Need Most?

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We all need time away, to reflect, to restore…to rest. Why is it that when the opportunity presents itself we either obsess about it or push it out of our minds?

Personal confession: My husband and I have been planning a long weekend away for several months to celebrate our anniversary (and a bit of my birthday too since they are 5 days apart.) He missed both occasions last year (deployed to Afghanistan.)But for most of that time I stubbornly refused to research what activities we might wish to do, where we might like to eat, what I would need to bring and the arrangements that needed to be made (dogs, kids, etc.).

Why?

Perhaps it was because it was still in the future and I didn’t want to get excited too early. Perhaps it was too stressful thinking about arrangements and choices. Here’s another confession…I really hate making decisions…big or small…I hate them all. (We’ll dissect that another time.)

The truth.

I think that I was too darn busy and this was just one more item to add to my already burgeoning to-do list. How many of you feel that same way? C’mon be honest.

Planning your vacation turns out to be so stressful that you end up not enjoying it.

Thinking about upcoming celebrations puts you over the edge; gifts, food, invitations, shopping, too much to think about!– birthday parties, entertaining, Christmas…(Don’t even go there, I’m getting hives.)

You have a long weekend coming up so in preparation you work 10 hour days to get everything done and you’re too exhausted to enjoy your time away.

Or while you’re on your break away, you can’t stop thinking about everything you need to do at work, at home, when you get back and worse you’re annoyed by your inability to relax. (Wait…Maybe that’s just me?)

So, what can we do? How do we fix this?

I really don’t have the answer to this one. But here’s what I’m going to try:

I’m going to read some of my old posts on the importance of recharging, refueling, rest and relaxationand try to take some of my own advice.

I’m going to remind myself that I am lucky to have a husband and partner that I truly enjoy spending time with and further that he and our relationship deserves my time and attention (more of taking my own coaching advice.)

I am going to take a deep breath and unplug… totally. I sense a bit of anxiety just writing that…must be social connection & technology withdrawal anticipation(might have to toss in a Facebook or Twitter mobile pic upload.) (I really must listen to my own coaching more often!)

Wish me luck! And if you have any advice to toss my way…please…feel free.

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How to Salvage Even the Worst Day

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We’ve all had days when it seems like nothing gets done or everything conspires to get in our way.

It’s Ok. Really. Tomorrow is another day…Literally another chance to have a productive, meaningful day.

When you have limited energy, time and focus, just fall back to your “Good Enough” list.

My day is “good enough” when I:

  1. Make my bed (This is huge for me…always make my bed first thing or my day falls apart.)
  2. Write something…anything (This is my work and my passion…for you it might be different.)
  3. Talk, hug and play with my children and husband.
  4. Move a little bit – even walk or yoga for 10 minutes.
  5. Do one thing of value (Might be a work task, phone call, email or one step forward on a project.)
  6. Listen to someone and offer the most valuable gift of support and understanding.
  7. Appreciate the beauty around me (For me it’s nature, photography, plants, pets.)
  8. Expand my mind (Books and interesting conversation.)
  9. Create order (Clean my space, organize my work, home or technology.)
  10. Laugh (A chuckle can go a long way towards saving a horrible day. Better if you share it with friends.)

What do you do to salvage a bad day that has gotten derailed?

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10 Ways to Make Change Work for You

Simple Steps

Change is not the enemy. In fact it can be the best friend you never knew you had.

From time to time it’s beneficial to shake things up and get out of a rut, even if you think that rut is working for you! You’d be surprised at what a measurable difference a small change in routine, environment or process can make. Change can be a valuable success and happiness tool if you learn to make it work for you instead of avoiding it at all costs.

Commit this week to making just one change in the way you live and work.

10 Change Suggestions to get you started:

  • Rearrange your furniture in your office or a room at home – Especially if you work from home (I recently moved my desk so that I was no longer facing the wall and immediately found I was happier and more productive.)
  • Change the colors that surround you – Colors have been scientifically proven to affect mood and creativity (you don’t have to paint your walls…new curtains, a throw pillow, flowering plant or an inexpensive wall hanging can work.)
  • Wear something different – Buy something completely different from your usual wardrobe, even a new tie or scarf will work or wear favorite clothing in a new combination.
  • Shift your normal routine – Do you always get groceries or go to the bank on the same day? Do you always check your email first? How about when you take breaks and lunch? Shake it up and see how it works (you can always go back.)
  • Try out a new commuting activity – If you normally talk on your mobile phone or listen to the news, how about listening to an audio book instead or try a silent commute (might be uncomfortable for some, but I find the silence to be great opportunity to mull over creative ideas.)
  • Expand your social circle – Eat lunch with someone different, invite a colleague or acquaintance for coffee, ask a neighbor to dinner ( you never know where you will find your next friend mentor or business contact.)
  • Swap activities – Do yoga at lunch instead of sitting in the lunch room, try Zumba instead of the treadmill, Pilates in place of yoga or biking instead of your usual morning run (altering your exercise routine not only keeps it more interesting, but also is more effective at improving your fitness and health.)
  • Eat a different meal – If you always have a bagel or muffin for breakfast, try having eggs or yogurt and fruit instead (the extra protein will increase you alertness and energy level.)
  • Examine one firmly entrenched process and see if you can tweak or overhaul it (well established processes and equipment that may have worked quite well at one time, may not be the most effective method now.)
  • How about changing your attitude or behavior – Gulp! This is the toughest, but by far the most effective change strategy (If you notice that you complain or criticize often, try remaining silent when the urge strikes.  Or if you’re always late, make it a priority to be on time for a week and see how it feels.)
Most importantly…Smile…It changes everything.

Question everything, move forward, enjoy the journey.

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Why You Need to Do a “Mind Download” Daily

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Simple Steps

Our minds are really like human computers. If we want to improve our productivity and efficiency, we need to empty the cache of temporary “files” and reboot for our brains to perform at their peak levels. Otherwise we can suffer from brain overload with too many circuits firing at once and so many programs (thoughts) running in the background that we either “freeze up” and can’t remember anything or simply process the information much more  slowly than we’d like.

Sounds difficult. But it’s not. It only requires a few minutes and some manner of recording your thoughts.

Choose your time – Try first thing in the morning and again before bedtime, but if that doesn’t work for you any time can work. I prefer to sit with my morning coffee for a few minutes and let my brain wake up. I apparently need the caffeine kick to form coherent thoughts.

Choose your method of recording – You can keep an electronic list on your mobile phone or computer, use a voice recorder or similar app or go the traditional pen and paper route. Though I tend to be a “techie” by nature, I still prefer to use a pen and pad for this process.

Now, take just 5 minutes and write down whatever is in your head or on your mind. Sounds doable.

And I mean everything… Not just tasks, but thoughts, concerns, questions and ideas too. You can sort them later, just get them out of your brain so that they can stop cycling through and using up precious brain power and space.

Once you’re finished you can add any tasks to your ongoing tasks list (you have one of those right?) Add any new ideas to an idea file to pursue later and record questions or concerns in a journal to mull over at another time. (If you never go back to mull them over, then they weren’t that important.)

By making it a habit to take just a few minutes each day to empty and organize your brain, you can drastically improve your ability to focus, complete tasks, achieve goals, find better balance and increase your energy. Not bad for 5 minutes work.

Question everything, move forward, enjoy the journey.

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Review: “The Art of Accomplishment” by Nicholas Townsend Smith

I was thrilled to be asked to review this book! I love reading…well…anything really, but I especially love reading something I can share with my readers that is 1. useful and 2. affordable. 

Art of Accomplishment“The Art of Accomplishment” by Nicholas Townsend Smith is both. From the book:

I know if you apply my methods, your life will change, as it has for me and so many others. If you follow these methods, you will become one of those people who reaches his or her goals.

Let me ask you this: what do you think it means to accomplish?

I”ll tell you what I think it means. If I could give you one take away from this book and nothing else, it would be this: to accomplish something is simply to complete it. If you start finishing what you start, amazing things happen.

However, I will warn you that accomplishing anything requires effort. If you picked up this book thinking it would be a get-successful-easy methodology, you picked up the wrong book.

Put it down before you actually EARN something!

Nicholas delivers his insightful information with analogies we can relate to and useful strategies we can all apply.

Read an excerpt from one of my favorite chapters:

REDEFINE PERFECTION

How many times have you thought to yourself that if you did not do something perfectly the first time, then you wouldn’t do it? If you looked like some kind of an idiot, you wouldn’t even try?

The word perfect originated from the Latin word perficere; per meaning ‘complete’ and facere meaning ‘to do’.

To do something perfectly never meant to do things flawlessly or without defect; we redefined it to mean that. The original meaning of the word perfect was to do something and to finish it.

As you now know from the Certainty Cycle it is really hard to know if something does or does not work if you never finish it. It is in finishing things that we discover the results. If you finish what you start, then you are performing perfectly even when the results are not flawless. Perfection is what allows you to make adjustments and continue on to flawlessness.

As a little bonus, I want to share with you the process of perfection. This is a five step process and will help you accomplish every goal you set:

  • 1- Intention – What is it you are stretching toward? What is the goal you would like to reach? Establish your target and determine the high probability path for reaching it.
  • 2- Trigger – Establish a trigger that gets the process started. You could have an intricate goal and system put together, much like a Rube Goldberg machine, but nothing to trigger the next action, so it really doesn‟t matter. The trigger is the item or action that gets you moving toward your goal.
  • 3- Perform – Now that you have the goal, the system, and the trigger, the next step is to do your system; to act.
  • 4- Complete – Finish what you start. Perform to completion because this is the only way you will know if your system works or not.
  • 5- Adjust – Make adjustments to your system and actions until you are getting the results you want.

The process of perfection is a simple tool that will assist you in reaching your goals every time. Do you want to perform perfectly? Do what you say you will do and finish it! That my friend, is perfection.

 

Nicholas Townsend Smith is quickly becoming the most powerful performance trainer in America. His transformational style and commitment to individuals has generated lasting change in business owners, organizational leaders, executives, employees and individuals across America and into Canada. His clients’ results have been astonishing; from establishing high paying contracts to increasing health, each person has used concepts from Nick’s seminars, webinars, teleseminars and group and individual coaching to accomplish his or her desires. More information on Nick and his work can be found at http://clearpathtraining.com.

 

 

 

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Use Your Energy Cycle to be More Productive, Successful and Happy?

Each of us has our own individual energy and focus “pattern” that cycles throughout the day. These cycles actually occur weekly, seasonally and yearly, but for now let’s concentrate on the daily “cycle.” Our energy follows a kind of ebb and flow pattern with a consistency that is startling.

The key here is to:

Understand that each person is different.

Be aware of what your pattern is.

Accept that this is not something that can be easily changed.

Learn to use your energy cycle as a tool to increase your productivity and enjoyment both at work and at home.

It’s a very simple shift actually. Zero cost, minimal time to implement and very effective. The best kind of solution.

First, can you answer the following questions?

  • What time of day are you most focused?
  • When do you have the highest energy?
  • When do you struggle to concentrate on the words in front of you or the person who is talking to you?
  • Does your mind wander at certain times of the day?
  • Are there certain periods in the day when you feel more social and others when you would prefer to be left alone?

You probably already know the answer to these questions, but if not simply observe your workflow and how you feel for a day or two and it will be very clear.

Next, whenever possible schedule work, tasks, meetings or family activities when they are the best fit. Try to shift current habits or commitments to fit into better time periods as well. Sometimes you have no choice due to employer constraints, family schedules or plain logistics. But wherever you can implement this strategy you will see an immediate increase in productivity and a decrease in stress.

I’ll use myself as an example. I love to be the “guinea pig” to try out new solutions.

When I started working for myself full-time, I was thrilled that I would get to set my own schedule and complete work when I wanted to. I got out a blank weekly calendar and created the “perfect” time map for how I was going to spend my work and family time. I scheduled time to write every day, blocks for calls, email, social media, project days, etc. (Yes, it’s a bit overboard, but I’m a planning addict, I can’t help myself.)

After the first few weeks I started wondering why I didn’t seem to be getting much done and I was stressed much of the time. I had done everything right. I planned my week. I used time blocks. I had my tasks and project lists. I eliminated distractions (if you don’t count the snoring dogs.) I even took breaks!

I was meeting my deadlines and getting work done, but it seemed like a struggle much of the time. I didn’t feel as though I was using my time and effort effectively and I was constantly frustrated.  I’m supposed to be an expert in this productivity game. If I can’t be highly productive and happy, then how can I teach others to live this way?

It’s those darn rules again. They keep getting in the way; hurting when they’re supposed to be helping. I’m going to sound like a broken record here. Forget the rules, especially the self-imposed ones.

Who says you have to write first thing every morning? What if I wake up with too much on my mind and I am more creative after lunch?

Who says you have to read to your kids every night before bed?  What if my son and I are falling asleep at bed time and we prefer to read each morning before school?

I have discovered a few other personal energy and focus preferences:

I have found that in-person meetings are more productive for me late morning.

Phone calls are easier mid-morning.

Projects and writing that require calm and intense focus go more smoothly in the afternoon.

I can more easily absorb information either first thing in the morning or after dinner, so that is a good time for research, learning and reading.

I enjoy physical household chores or exercising at the beginning of my work day or at the end, but not when I first wake up, at lunch or in the evening.

If you were to draw my energy/focus pattern out it would resemble the following graphic:

 

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My Energy and Focus Cycle

Since I learned to use the cycles of my energy and focus to my advantage, my productivity has increased dramatically. I get more work done in a shorter period of time and more importantly, the work is of a higher quality. The same is true of my personal time and activities.

I invite you to use this simple strategy and see how much your productivity increases, your effectiveness improves, your goals seem more attainable and your work becomes more enjoyable.

I think you’ll find that you are happier as well, because you are learning to work with your energy, instead of against it.

*Bonus – You might need less coffee as well, because you won’t need to artificially boost your energy when you don’t have it.

If you need help, you know where to find me…

 

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Avoiding Common Productivity Traps

We are working really hard, pushing ourselves to achieve more and yet we just can’t seem to get it together. Maybe it’s not that we’re not working hard enough as the voice in our head might claim.  In reality it’s just that we fall victim to the myriad of productivity pitfalls that plague our days.

Perhaps the simplest way to increase our productivity is to avoid some of the most common productivity traps:

Social media – Social media is a wonderful avenue for promotion, branding, information gathering and developing relationships, but any tool used to excess can turn into an albatross. Go ahead, use social media if it provides clear value for you, but keep in mind its value relative to other activities on your schedule. For example, try limiting your Facebook or Twitter time to a few short sessions (5 to 15 minutes) several times per day.

Interruptions – It seems that whenever you get in the middle of some really juicy, productive work that is when the phone rings, the co-workers come knocking or the new message notifications starts flashing. Interruptions no matter the form pose a serious hazard to productivity. Your your focus is broken, your mind has to shift gears and momentum is lost. It’s difficult to recover from interruptions after they happen, so the most effective strategy is to prevent them through good planning and even better boundaries. Close your door, turn off your phone, shut down email and make it clear to all that you are in “focus mode.”

Over-scheduling – Nearly everyone in our modern society falls prey to over-commitment and over scheduling of our time and resources. We seem to think that the more we pack into our days, the more valuable we are. All it really does is cause us to be stressed, ineffective rushing through our days without really paying attention. There are actually two strategies we can explore to minimize this trap. Say no…a lot. Gently but firmly decline commitments or requests that aren’t of the highest value to you. The other is to have realistic expectations about how much can be done in any given period of time. We generally underestimate the effort required for a task.

Low value tasks – Assess how valuable each of your activities are. Ask if you really need to be doing everything that you are currently spending your time on. Try to eliminate or delegate those activities that don’t really add much or that can easily be done by someone else. Maximize the time you have by working on those tasks that you excel at and that add the most value to your work or meaning to your life.

Email black-hole – Don’t get me wrong, email is one of the best technology inventions in my opinion. I would be lost without it. The issue is not email technology itself, but our obsession with never wanting to miss any piece of information or be out of the loop. We have this fear that if we don’t respond immediately, we will be seen as incompetent or uncaring. If it’s important it’ll still be there when you get back. It does not need to be answered right this minute. Turn off your email notifications if you can and check your email at pre-determined times each day.

Low energy – Energy is the invisible currency of productivity. You can get more done if you have ample energy and endurance. Protect your energy by taking regular breaks, getting enough sleep, making healthier eating choices and staying hydrated. Stepping away from your desk to stretch your legs and drink some water can do considerably more for your energy levels than another cup of liquid caffeine.

Multitasking – We have been laboring under the false assumption that we can pay attention to more than one thing at a time and thereby accomplish twice as much. Wrong! Our brains are just not wired that way. What we like to call multi-tasking is really “switch-tasking.” We are asking our brains to rapidly switch gears back and forth between competing focuses. It just doesn’t work. In reality we are far more likely to do high quality work and get far more satisfaction out of it as well if we focus on a single activity at a time. Give it a try.

Lack of clarity – This is not always considered in productivity planning, but it is critical. We need to be very clear about what precisely we have to do, what the desired outcome is, the rules or standards surrounding it, potential obstacles, specific deadlines and if we are collaborating, what our individual responsibility is.

Consider incorporating at least one of these suggestions, maybe several and see what happens to your daily productivity. You have nothing to lose and much to gain.

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Don’t Forget to Charge Your Batteries

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When’s the last time you did something just for you?

Be honest. I mean just for you, for fun or pleasure with no work pay-off, planned outcome, ROI or ulterior motive…

For most the answer is …uh…I can’t remember. Time alone, to de-stress, re-group and re-charge our batteries is crucial to our health and well-being. Even just an hour or two can have a tremendous impact on our mood, our productivity and our life satisfaction. It can be the simplest way to maintain our sanity in the midst of the crazy pace of life. And it’s considerably cheaper than any therapy or drug out there!

  • Get a massage or facial – to save money try a massage school or do a short chair massage.
  • Take the afternoon off to play hooky – window shop, play golf, go to a movie or steal away to a park with a book.
  • Take a walk or drive by yourself to get some peace and quiet – reflect and think or blast your music and sing (leave your phone at home or at least off.)
  • Treat yourself to a fancy drink or pastry at a café that you never have time to visit.
  • Take a nap – in the hammock or at the beach is even better.
  • Take a yoga class – or Tai Chi, Karate, Zumba or some other activity you’d like to try.
  • Take time for a hobby that you enjoy  – photography, art, wood-working, sewing, cooking, dancing, fishing, whatever makes you smile.

Do something for yourself. It doesn’t need to be expensive or difficult. It just needs to allow you an hour or two to slow down, step  back, take a breath and enjoy life.

Otherwise, what’s the point…

 

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